Make This A Valentine’s Day Weekend You’ll Never Forget


It’s that time of the year again, and whether you're single or boo’d up (cues Ella Mai), you can make this Valentine’s Day weekend one you’ll never forget. Here are 5 tips to get you started.

Love Yourself –

Love yourself girl or nobody will.” J Cole said it best. The best love you can have is self-love. Daily affirmations are a key thing! Speaking things into existence is powerful. The more you tell yourself things like, “I am beautiful, powerful, smart, and sexy," the more you’ll start to believe it.

Put Your Chef Hat On -

Girl you're in the kitchen, cooking me a meal. Something makes me wanna come in there and get a feel.” We all know that the quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Prepare a meal for your partner. A meal that is fit for a king. Make a dish that he loves, and make a signature cocktail (if he’s a drinker) with his favorite liquor. Dinner and conversation is a great start for the evening. And all my single ladies - don't feel left out. Give yourself a reason to try out that new recipe you've been eyeing. 

Try Something New -

I'm always on the top, but tonight I'm on the bottom... cause we're trading places.” Step out of your comfort zone and take charge. If your partner is always making the first move in the bedroom, then this is the time to take charge and put the moves on them. Set the aroma, lighting and music. Use candles for lighting, but the gag is to use them to warm your lover up. Options -, www.intimecandles.comwalgreens, and

If your balling on a budget, you can check out, where she gives step by step instructions.

Get Creative -

While you’re preparing for your special night, instead of going out and buying a card why not make him one? Men love women who are creative and thoughtful. Creating a homemade Valentine’s Day card will be something to really wow your partner. Insert kind words about how you feel about your other half and make it cute! A thoughtful gesture like this is one that he’ll never forget.

Set The Mood -

You know I got the sauce, you know I’m saucy...” What better way to set the mood than with some lingerie. Start the search and find something that looks sexy, but feels comfortable... well comfortable enough. Get something that he won’t expect. The element of surprise is always one that will work in you favor. Where to buy?

Here are two of my favorites:,

Here is a list complied by BuzzFeed to help you out along your search:



Xoxo China <3