Softness Is Not Surrender. It's the Most Radical Thing You Can Do.
We've been sold a story about womanhood that equates exhaustion with excellence. That frames hyperindependence as a personality trait instead of what it often actually is: a survival strategy that's outlived its season. We're not here to celebrate how much you can hold. We're here to ask you to put some of it down.
Your Vulva Called. She’d Like A Little More Eye Contact
When was the last time you really looked at your vulva? Not a quick glance in the shower—mirror in hand, lights on, every curve and fold reflected back.
For many—especially Black and brown folks and those in the LGBTQIA+ community—the answer might be never. That’s why mirror-gazing matters. It’s not vanity. It’s connection, awareness and unlearning shame.
A Peek Into Ebony Alicia’s Self-Care Routine
“I recommend all women to really sit and spend time with themselves to determine what areas in their life they'd want to change and start there.”